The Dark Danger: Bigotry: The False Idea of the "Beating of Women"
Contents
- The Misunderstood Islam
- The Two Basic Concepts Misused by Those Who Portray Islam as a Violent Faith: Sharia and Jihad
- Islam: The Religion of Ease
- The True Sharia in the Qur'an
- What Does the True Qur'anic Sharia Bring to A Country?
- The True Jihad in the Qur'an
- An Examination of Verse 95 of Surat an-Nisa'
- An Examination of Verse 52 of Surat al-Furqan
- A Muslim Has a Responsibility to Believe in Every Verse of the Qur'an, Without Exception
- The Qur'an Is a "Preserved" Book
- The Mistakes in Differentiating between the "Meccan Period Muslims" and "Medinan Period Muslims"
- The Harsh Testing of Muslims in the Meccan Period
- The Medinan Period and the Battles
- Who Were Battles Fought Against?
- The Description of War in the Qur'an
- Polytheists with Whom Agreements Were Made
- The First Multilateral and Most Democratic Constitution Ever: The Constitution of Medina
- Verses about War and the Interpretation Thereof
- There Is No Justification for War in Islam Except for Self-Defense
- War for Ideological or Ethnic Superiority?
- One of the Main Causes of Radicalism: Tribal Culture
- War for the Purpose of Spreading the Rules of Islam to be Introduced by A Muslim Leader?
- War for the Elimination of Enemies?
- Who Desires War?
- Conclusion
- The False Faith of the Fanatics
- Fabricated Hadiths that Shape the Religion of the Fanatics
- Our Prophet (pbuh) Did Not Allow Any Hadith To Be Written Down
- The Rightly-Guided Caliphs Did Not Allow the Writing of Hadiths
- Some of the Companions of Our Prophet (pbuh) Objected to Collecting Hadith
- The Idolaters and Hypocrites Tried to Harass Our Prophet (pbuh)
- Where Did Fabricated Hadiths Come from?
- Differences between the Islamic Schools of Thought
- Those Who Seek Commandments outside the Qur'an Must Turn to the Truth of the Faith
- Radicals Seek to Hold on to "What They Learned from Their Forefathers"
- The Islamic World's Abandonment of the Qur'an
- The Qur'an Is Our Guide and Should Be in Our Hands at All Times
- A Major Problem: The Defamatory Idea that the Hadiths Have Abrogated Verses
- Understanding the Limits of the Fanatical Mindset
- The Killing of People Who Drink Alcohol
- The Killing of People Who Commit Adultery
- Adultery in the Eyes of the Qur'an
- The Killing of People Who Steal
- The Killing of Apostates
- The Killing of Those Who Cease to Pray
- The Beating of Children Who Stop Praying
- The Killing of People Who Do Not Give Alms
- The Imprisonment and Starvation of Those Who Do Not Fast
- The Killing of People Who Abjure the Faith When Drunk
- The Killing of Those Who Speak Improperly about the Prophet without Calling on Him to Repent
- The Superstition of "Accursed Animals" in the Religion of the Fanatics
- Our Prophet (pbuh) Did Away with the Cruel Customs that Mistreated Animals
- Our Prophet (pbuh) Forbade Animals from Being Overworked
- Working Animals' Right to Rest
- Our Prophet (pbuh) Prohibited the Abuse and Mistreatment of Animals
- Our Prophet's (pbuh) Cat, "Muezza"
- Our Prophet's (pbuh) Affection toward a Mother Bird and Her Young
- The Baby Goat
- A Starving Camel and Its Owner
- A Sleeping Antelope
- A Donkey Branded on the Face
- Treating Animals Well
- The Foul Nature of the Fanatic
- A Dirty Conception of Faith and A Low-Quality Conception of Being a Muslim
- Women Are One of the Finest Blessings in This World
- Women in the Qur'an
- The Idea that Women Are Deficient in Intelligence and Faith
- The Idea that Women Are Crooked
- Hadiths and Claims Fabricated to Debase Women
- The Idea that Women Are a Barrier to People Living by the Faith
- The Idea that One Should Never Be Guided by Women
- The Defamatory Idea that Women Are Second-Class Citizens and that God Has Left Women Backward
- Allegations Prohibiting Women from Adorning Themselves
- The Fanatics' Idea of How Muslim Women Should Treat Their Husbands
- The Rights and Superiority Bestowed on Women in the Qur'an Are Nowhere in the Religion of the Fanatic
- The Position of a Woman Who Divorces Her Husband
- A Woman Being Regarded as a Sinner until Her Husband Is Pleased with Her
- Women Being Unable to Go out, and the Idea They Are Prone to Deception by Satan
- The Idea that A Woman Is Misfortune and Annuls Prayer
- Examples of the Fanatical Mindset that Compares Women to Animals
- Verses Addressing the Wives of Our Prophet (pbuh)
- Conclusion: The Qur'an Attaches the Greatest Value to Women
- The Addition of the Word "Headscarf" to Translations of the Qur'an As a Means of Restricting Women
- Surat an-Nur Verse 31, 1st Part
- "Khimar" / Cover
- "Yadribna" / To strike
- "Juyub" / Collar opening
- Misleading or Incorrect Translations Based on Fabricated Hadiths
- A False Interpretation: "That They Should Draw Their Head Coverings"
- 1-Care over the Use of Words in Arabic
- 2-Examination of Words in the Qur'an Through Other Verses
- 3-Care Being Taken Over Ascribing Meaning to Arabic Words in Parenthesis
- Surat an-Nur Verse 31, 2nd Part
- Misinterpretations Regarding "Women's Adornments"
- The Idea that Women Are Instruments of Trial
- The Error of Making Adornments and Accessories Unlawful
- How Is the Word "Ornament" Used in the Qur'an?
- The Region Referred to in Verse 31 of Surat an-Nur
- Fabricated Hadiths on the Subject of the Head-Covering and Their Internal Inconsistencies
- Forbidden Things Are Not Left Obscure in the Qur'an
- The Desire to Shut Only Women and Their Bodies Away
- The Qur'an Refers to the Jilbab, Not to the Headscarf
- Surat al-Ahzab Verse 59
- Espousing the Head-Covering but Never Mentioning the "Jilbab"
- Which Important Topics Do Some of the Passionate Defenders of the Headscarf Never Talk About?
- A Muslim Woman Knows How to Dress in Accordance with the Qur'an
- The "Two Women = One Man" Error
- Women and Witness Testimony in Loans
- Women's Inheritance Rights
- A Woman's Right to Divorce
- Divorce and the Protection of Women Thereafter
- Women Being Kept Happy and Content in the Event of Divorce
- Women Being Given Financial Security after Divorce
- Assets Given to Women Must Not Be Taken back after Divorce
- Ensuring Women Have a Place to Live after Divorce
- Women Not Being Inherited by Force
- The Value Placed on Mothers
- The Slander of Male Superiority and the Nonsense about Beating Women
- The Idea of Male Superiority
- The False Idea of the "Beating of Women"
- Other Misconceptions concerning Women
- Sayings of Our Prophet (pbuh) in Praise of Women
- The Fanatics' Hatred of Art
- The Idea that Joking, Humor and Laughter Must Be Avoided
- According to the Qur'an Grief and Unhappiness Are Attributes of Unbelievers Alone
- The Joy in Paradise and the True Meaning of Sorrow
- The Idea of Avoiding Humor
- The Allegation that Music and Poetry Are Forbidden
- The Dishonesty of Fanatics Who Seek to Ban Music
- God Loves Music, and Causes His Servants to Love It
- The Idea that Painting and Sculpture Are Unlawful
- The Idea that Gold and Silk Are Prohibited
- Fabricated Hadiths that Prohibit Pleasant Scent
- Fabricated Hadiths that Prohibit Tattoos, Removal of Facial Hair, Esthetic Dental Work
- Fabricated Hadiths that Prohibit Women from Going out of Doors in Attractive Clothes
- Fabricated Hadiths that Maintain that Women Lose Paradise by Preoccupying Themselves with Gold and Clothes
- Fabricated Hadiths that Maintain that Women Should not be Given Nice Clothes
- If the Spirit of the Fanatics Dominated This World
- Make-up, Grooming, Cleanliness, Modernity and Culture, "Quality" for Short, Are All Requirements of Islam
- Women Are Lovely Beings, of course They Must Be Well-Groomed
- The Horrifying Nature of the Misogyny of the Fanatical Mindset
- The Perversion that Leads to Running inside and Locking the Doors upon Seeing a Boy
- The Lie that Young Boys are Accompanied by Eighteen Satans
- The Perversion that Claims Boys Can Be 19 Times More Seductive than Women
- The Perversion that Claims ‘Young Boys Are Same as Women’ And ‘Boys Can Be Lusted After just like Women’
- The Claim that a Young Boy's Voice is Forbidden
- Muslims Have the Right to Wear Attractive Stylish Clothing and Own Fine Cars and Nice Homes
- Jews and Christians in the Religion of the Fanatics
- Responses from the Qur'an to Those Who Look to the Qur'an for Enmity toward the Jews
- The Comparison with "Monkeys and Pigs" and What the Qur'an Really Says about the People of the Book
- Examination of Verse 60 of Surat al-Ma'ida
- Jews Who Are Praised
- Examination of Verse 166 of Surat al-A'raf
- Examination of Verse 65 of Surat al-Baqara
- The Error of the Jews Being Cursed
- An Examination of Verse 88 of Surat al-Baqara
- Examination of Verse 155 of Surat an-Nisa'
- The Idea of Not Taking Jews and Christians As Friends
- Misunderstandings About War and the Jizya
- What Does the Expression "The Religion with God Is Islam" Mean?
- The Idea of Killing Jews Who Enter Adolescence
- The Idea of Making Jews Responsible for the Sins of Muslims
- The Idea that Food Is Spoiled because of Jews
- The Idea that Two Faiths Should Not Co-exist in Arab Lands
- The Idea that Calling Someone a Jew Is an Insult and that Cursing Jews Is a Source of Reward
- The Idea of Forcing Them onto the Narrow Part of the Road
- The Gharqad, the Tree of the Jews
- Muslim Men Can Marry Women of the Book; Muslims Can Eat the Food of the People of the Book and They Can Eat the Food of Muslims
- Muslims' Invitation to the People of the Book
- The Just Behavior of Muslims toward the People of the Book
- Muslims Are Obliged To Protect Churches and Synagogues; It Is a Sin To Attack Places of Worship
- Our Prophet's (pbuh) Relations with the People of the Book
- The Gospel and the Torah in the Qur'an
- Our Prophet's Practices concerning the Torah and the Gospel
- The Jews Enjoy the Right to Live in the Holy Land in the Qur'an
- Afterword
The original Arabic word in verse 34 of Surat an-Nisa' that reads "If there are women whose disobedience you fear, you may admonish them, refuse to sleep with them, and then beat them" that is translated as "beat" in numerous texts is "idribuhunn(a)." The root is the verb "daraba" and "daraba" may be the word with the widest meaning in Arabic. In addition to meaning "to beat," it is also used in "minting money" and "going on strike." Let us consider a comparable example in English; when someone says "the doorbell went off," it does not generally mean that the doorbell is no longer functioning and therefore no longer of use, but that someone is waiting for us to open the door. When words (or phrases) with broad meaning are used, it is therefore very important to analyze with reason and common sense the way they are used, the context and the true meaning. One of the most widely employed meanings of the word "daraba" is to travel and to go out. Indeed, the verb "daraba" is used in verses of the Qur'an referring to traveling, going on a journey or departing from somewhere for a period of time. For example; When you are travelling (darabtum) in the land, there is nothing wrong in your shortening your prayer if you fear that those who are irreligious may harass you. (Qur'an, 4:101)
We revealed to Moses, "Travel with My servants by night. Strike a dry path for them through the sea. Have no fear of being overtaken and do not be afraid." (Qur'an, 20:77) It is for the poor who are held back in the Way of God, unable to travel (darban) in the land.... (Qur'an, 2:273)
You who believe! Do not be like those who are unbelievers and say of their brothers, when they are going on journeys (darabu)...
When you are traveling (darabtum) in the land... (Qur'an, 4:101) The word "daraba" is clearly not being used in the sense of "to beat" in these verses. The same thing applies to verse 34 of Surat an-Nisa', which we are considering here. When we analyze the word "daraba" in the light of this verse, there are three different meanings we need to look at: 1) Remove them from the home, 2) Force them to go outside from where they are, or 3) Beat them.
In order to understand the sense in which the word daraba is used in verse 34 of Surat an-Nisa', we need to return to the term "If there are women whose disobedience you fear," at the beginning of the verse. The word "nushuz" is translated to mean "rebellion and disobedience" in many texts. Some commentators who take every opportunity to try and include the idea of humiliating women in verses about them, either put "obedience to men" in parenthesis or else try to give that idea through misleading translations. Yet the word "nushuz" means unfaithfulness, from a woman flirting with someone who is not her husband up to the level of illicit sexual relations. Therefore, the next part of the verse describes how the husband should treat his wife who has been unfaithful to him. The man is told first of all to advise the woman not to behave unfaithfully. If that is unsuccessful, the husband is advised to sleep separately from her. However, if the woman still persists in illicit relations and commits adultery, then the best thing to do is to try removing the woman from the home entirely.
It is obvious that the Qur'an, in which women are specially protected, will not contain any practices resembling beating women. When we look at it logically, beating a woman who insists on being unfaithful to her husband despite all his admonitions will do nothing Although there are campaigns aimed at raising awareness of violence against women in the press and broadcasting media, it has to date proved impossible to prevent across the world. The reason for that is there is no activity on the level of ideas and based on the Qur'an against the mindset that represents the foundation of such violence.
but anger that woman, who has in any case betrayed him; that would create new problems rather than resolving the issue. But removal is one solution. A woman may think more logically while she has been sent away, may feel regret in the face of this behavior and may look at matters in a healthier manner. The verse also says that the husband must not take other measures against her if she repents the error of her ways. In this section, translated in the words "But if they obey you, do not look for a way to punish them," there is again attempt to shape the issue on the basis of "a woman who obeys a man." Yet according to the accurate translation, what the passage actually means is "if they heed your advice and behave in a faithful manner." The criterion here is not a woman's obedience to a man, but "faithfulness," a responsibility attendant upon both sides in a marriage. 16-year-old Malala Yousafzai was shot in the head and neck on her way home from school because of her blog in which she described the oppression of the population by the Taliban.
Thankfully, Malala was restored to full health after lengthy treatment and is still fighting for the education rights of young girls.
There is no commandment in the Qur'an about beating women.
There has never been any violence against women during the time of the Prophet Muhammad (pbuh).
ADNAN OKTAR: It is a sin to beat up women. Almighty God does not tell [you] to beat up women. God says: "First admonish them and then separate your beds." Women can do that, too. "If they still persist in that behavior, then remove [them] from home." For example, take them to their father’s or mother’s house. If that still does not help, appoint a judge; appoint people from both sides as judges. Let them try to make peace between you. If that doesn't work either, get a divorce, says God. There is no such thing as beating up. They turned Islam into a complicated religion. In truth, there is no headscarf, no wife beating in the Qur'an. You cannot find it in the Qur'an; it doesn't exist. This is an attempt to defame Islam and the Qur'an. This is satan’s plot. He is trying to destroy Islam. Satan is trying to end God’s true religion.
We will not let that happen.
(Excerpt from Mr. Adnan Oktar's conversations on A9 TV on February 7, 2017)