The Muslim Way of Speaking: Avoiding Statements that Lead to Evil
Contents
- Introduction
- The Importance of the Muslim Way of Speaking
- Praising the Might of Allah
- Remembering Allah Frequently
- The Aspects of the Muslim Way of Speaking
- Calling on Allah Through His Beautiful Names
- Speaking in the Knowledge that Allah is with You at Every Moment
- Speaking So as Not to Associate Others with Allah
- Speaking So as to Praise and Exalt Allah
- Speaking in the Knowledge of One's Helplessness in the Face of Allah
- Speaking in the Knowledge that Tasks are Performed Through Allah's Will
- Employing the Qur'an as a Guide in Speech
- Speaking in the Knowledge of the Certainty of Fate and of the Truth that There is Good in All Things
- Speaking Through Trust in Allah
- Speaking with Awareness that the Life of the World is Transitory
- Showing Concern in Speech for the Lawful and the Unlawful
- Avoiding the Style of Speech Influenced by Satan and Taking Refuge from Satan in Allah
- Enjoining What is Right and Forbidding What is Wrong
- Speaking with Wisdom
- Speaking in a Sincere Manner
- Speaking the Truth
- Speaking Sensibly and Logically
- Giving Good Tidings
- Speaking So as to Arouse Joy and Enthusiasm
- Saying What is Best
- Not Speaking from the Lower-self and from Personal Desires
- Speaking in a Measured, Courteous and Respectful Manner
- Speaking in a Humble Manner
- Speaking with Tolerance and Forgiveness
- Consulting
- Saying It is as Allah Wills the Re is No Strength but in Allah
- Speaking Well with One's Parents
- Not Talking Behind Others' Backs or Gossiping
- Avoiding Suspicion and Slander
- Not Speaking in a Mocking Manner
- Avoiding Speaking Out of Covetousness and Envy
- Not Making Empty and Trivial Statements
- Not Interrupting and Speaking Calmly
- Employing a Style of Speech Appropriate to the Level of Knowledge of the Person Addressed
- Avoiding Speaking Hypocritically
- Avoiding a Way of Speech Which Gives Rise to Doubts
- Avoiding a Probing and Prying Speech
- Avoiding Statements that Lead to Evil
- Avoiding Obfuscation
- Not Holding Secret Meetings
- Speaking So as to Defend and to Support Our Prophets a as
- Conclusion

Muslims try to speak every word in a way which conforms to the instructions of the Qur'an, and which sides with Allah's religion. They try to bring up matters which will be useful to other believers, draw them closer to Allah, give them peace and contentment, encourage them and console them. They take care to avoid matters which will diminish their inner-peace, occupy their minds unnecessarily, or awaken doubt or anxiety in their hearts.
In the conversations of hypocrites, this way of speaking is often found. With their speech, they try to provoke one another into opposing Allah, to encourage sin, and through devious methods to make others excessively attached to this worldly life. They do not speak so as to encourage others to approach Allah, live a moral life, and better understand fate and the afterlife. On the contrary, they try to enter every deviant thought as the topic of every of conversation. These people can often be observed venturing carelessly into subjects completely incompatible with the morality pronounced in the Qur'an. They employ a way of speaking which seeks to spread among the faithful that type of behavior which Allah has forbidden.
On matters which Allah has commanded them clearly in the Qur'an, the faithful are not adversely tempted by the wiles of the hypocrites. They are continually vigilant of such tactics. The hypocrites persist in these efforts because they cannot understand how devoted the faithful are to Allah, and the sincere and honest way they live according to the morality of the Qur'an. The ideas they present to the faithful, and the false logic they employ, persistently contrary to the Qur'an, reflect the spiritual darkness of those who resist faith. The faithful, who are aware of the fallacy of this manner of speech, listen cautiously when another begins speaking, recognizing that he or she may be promoting Satanic ideas, and summon people to adhere to the morality of the Qur'an.