The Muslim Way of Speaking: Avoiding a Probing and Prying Speech
Contents
- Introduction
- The Importance of the Muslim Way of Speaking
- Praising the Might of Allah
- Remembering Allah Frequently
- The Aspects of the Muslim Way of Speaking
- Calling on Allah Through His Beautiful Names
- Speaking in the Knowledge that Allah is with You at Every Moment
- Speaking So as Not to Associate Others with Allah
- Speaking So as to Praise and Exalt Allah
- Speaking in the Knowledge of One's Helplessness in the Face of Allah
- Speaking in the Knowledge that Tasks are Performed Through Allah's Will
- Employing the Qur'an as a Guide in Speech
- Speaking in the Knowledge of the Certainty of Fate and of the Truth that There is Good in All Things
- Speaking Through Trust in Allah
- Speaking with Awareness that the Life of the World is Transitory
- Showing Concern in Speech for the Lawful and the Unlawful
- Avoiding the Style of Speech Influenced by Satan and Taking Refuge from Satan in Allah
- Enjoining What is Right and Forbidding What is Wrong
- Speaking with Wisdom
- Speaking in a Sincere Manner
- Speaking the Truth
- Speaking Sensibly and Logically
- Giving Good Tidings
- Speaking So as to Arouse Joy and Enthusiasm
- Saying What is Best
- Not Speaking from the Lower-self and from Personal Desires
- Speaking in a Measured, Courteous and Respectful Manner
- Speaking in a Humble Manner
- Speaking with Tolerance and Forgiveness
- Consulting
- Saying It is as Allah Wills the Re is No Strength but in Allah
- Speaking Well with One's Parents
- Not Talking Behind Others' Backs or Gossiping
- Avoiding Suspicion and Slander
- Not Speaking in a Mocking Manner
- Avoiding Speaking Out of Covetousness and Envy
- Not Making Empty and Trivial Statements
- Not Interrupting and Speaking Calmly
- Employing a Style of Speech Appropriate to the Level of Knowledge of the Person Addressed
- Avoiding Speaking Hypocritically
- Avoiding a Way of Speech Which Gives Rise to Doubts
- Avoiding a Probing and Prying Speech
- Avoiding Statements that Lead to Evil
- Avoiding Obfuscation
- Not Holding Secret Meetings
- Speaking So as to Defend and to Support Our Prophets a as
- Conclusion

Another thing which Muslims ought to avoid is speaking in a prying and deceptive way. We have mentioned in previous sections that sincerity and honesty are amongst the finest characteristics of the Muslims, qualities which are also reflected in their speech. Saying what they want to say directly, without hiding behind false pretenses, is also a requirement of sincerity and honesty. The intention of Muslims can be easily discerned from their speech.
People who are far from the morality of the Qur'an generally do not say what they want to say directly. The reason for this is that they have formed a number of ill-intentioned pre-calculations. When they want to learn something, instead of asking openly, they prefer to go by devious routes. On a subject on which they want information, they try to lead the conversation towards it, and lead the other to talk about it by deceptive tactics. They also believe these ruses are not noticed by other people. However, such a cunning and deceptive way of speaking makes itself immediately apparent through its evident insincerity. This is the behavior of those far from the Qur'an and of the hypThe Aspects of the Muslim Way of Speaking ocrites. Muslims, who see everything in the light of the Qur'an, immediately detect the Satanic motives in such ways of speaking, and are not deceived by them.