The Muslim Way of Speaking: Employing a Style of Speech Appropriate to the Level of Knowledge of the Person Addressed
Contents
- Introduction
- The Importance of the Muslim Way of Speaking
- Praising the Might of Allah
- Remembering Allah Frequently
- The Aspects of the Muslim Way of Speaking
- Calling on Allah Through His Beautiful Names
- Speaking in the Knowledge that Allah is with You at Every Moment
- Speaking So as Not to Associate Others with Allah
- Speaking So as to Praise and Exalt Allah
- Speaking in the Knowledge of One's Helplessness in the Face of Allah
- Speaking in the Knowledge that Tasks are Performed Through Allah's Will
- Employing the Qur'an as a Guide in Speech
- Speaking in the Knowledge of the Certainty of Fate and of the Truth that There is Good in All Things
- Speaking Through Trust in Allah
- Speaking with Awareness that the Life of the World is Transitory
- Showing Concern in Speech for the Lawful and the Unlawful
- Avoiding the Style of Speech Influenced by Satan and Taking Refuge from Satan in Allah
- Enjoining What is Right and Forbidding What is Wrong
- Speaking with Wisdom
- Speaking in a Sincere Manner
- Speaking the Truth
- Speaking Sensibly and Logically
- Giving Good Tidings
- Speaking So as to Arouse Joy and Enthusiasm
- Saying What is Best
- Not Speaking from the Lower-self and from Personal Desires
- Speaking in a Measured, Courteous and Respectful Manner
- Speaking in a Humble Manner
- Speaking with Tolerance and Forgiveness
- Consulting
- Saying It is as Allah Wills the Re is No Strength but in Allah
- Speaking Well with One's Parents
- Not Talking Behind Others' Backs or Gossiping
- Avoiding Suspicion and Slander
- Not Speaking in a Mocking Manner
- Avoiding Speaking Out of Covetousness and Envy
- Not Making Empty and Trivial Statements
- Not Interrupting and Speaking Calmly
- Employing a Style of Speech Appropriate to the Level of Knowledge of the Person Addressed
- Avoiding Speaking Hypocritically
- Avoiding a Way of Speech Which Gives Rise to Doubts
- Avoiding a Probing and Prying Speech
- Avoiding Statements that Lead to Evil
- Avoiding Obfuscation
- Not Holding Secret Meetings
- Speaking So as to Defend and to Support Our Prophets a as
- Conclusion

One of the appealing features of the speech of Muslims is that they use the way of speaking that is the most appropriate, most considerate comprehensible. It is the intelligence that results from faith which endows them with this ability to address people of all ages and circumstances. The manner used to address a person with an open mind and broad level of knowledge is different from that used towards one who is not well cultured and with limited ability of comprehension. For example, it is not correct to explain a subject pedantically to an intellectual with detailed knowledge of it. It is the basis of consideration and politeness to speak without forgetting that the other knows the subject far better and while appreciating his or her superior qualities. In contrast, when speaking to a person who is less cultured and who has far less knowledge and experience, where care needs to be taken is in being comprehensible. Speaking to such a person in a manner he or she cannot understand or decipher, not being careful of the explanations he may need, and speaking in a way that is ambiguous and confusing way, is wrong. For example, using sophisticated language with an uneducated person is pointless. Those who try to make a show of themselves in the eyes of others on a subject about which they are not informed only actually make them look small. As a requirement from the intelligence they have gained by following the Qur'an, the faithful always use the way of speaking that is most appropriate, taking into account the needs, knowledge and cultural level of the person they are addressing.